How To Get Your Life On Track

Let’s get real for a sec, okay? Picture this: It’s a lazy Sunday afternoon, and I’m sprawled on my couch (you know, the one with the mysterious stain that I swear isn’t wine), nursing my third cup of coffee (judge me all you want, I regret nothing). Suddenly, it hits me like a ton of bricks – I’m feeling kinda… stuck.

You know that feeling? When life’s just chugging along, but something’s not quite clicking? Yeah, that was me. Big time.

That’s when I stumbled upon this whole “life audit” thing. Now, before you roll your eyes and think, “Oh great, another self-help fad,” hear me out. This isn’t about becoming some perfect, zen-like creature who has their life together 24/7. (Spoiler alert: Those people don’t exist, and if they do, they’re probably aliens.)

Nope, this is about getting real with yourself. Like, brutally honest, “why do I own 17 pairs of yoga pants when I haven’t done yoga since 2019” kind of honest. It’s about figuring out what actually matters to you and ditching the rest.

So, grab your beverage of choice (no judgment here – if it’s wine o’clock, you do you), get comfy, and let’s dive into this mess together. Trust me, it’s gonna be a wild ride, but I promise it’ll be worth it.

Step One: Reality Check Time, Baby!

Alright, buckle up buttercup, because we’re about to get uncomfortably real. It’s time to take a good, hard look at where you’re at right now. And I mean REALLY look – not that Instagram filter version of your life.

In order to do this, it’s time to ask yourself deep thought-provoking questions.

• Am I actually happy, or am I just really good at pretending?
• What’s that one thing I’ve always wanted to do but keep making excuses not to?
• If my best friend was living my life, what advice would I give them?
• What’s the last thing that made me lose track of time because I was so into it?
• Am I surrounding myself with people who lift me up or drag me down?

I’ll go first. When I did this, I realized I was spending way too much time trying to impress people I didn’t even like. Talk about a wake-up call!

Step Two: Shift Your Mindset

Okay, confession time. I used to be the queen of negative self-talk. My inner voice was basically Regina George from Mean Girls. Not cool, brain. Not cool.

So, I decided to flip the script. Every time I caught myself thinking something nasty, I’d counter it with something positive. It felt cheesy at first, but stick with me here.

Instead of “I’m such a disaster,” I’d think, “I’m a work in progress, and that’s okay.”
Rather than “I’ll never be good enough,” I’d say, “I’m constantly growing and learning.

It’s not about being delusional – it’s about giving yourself a freaking break. We’re all messy humans trying our best, right?

We cover mindset shifting in our eBook “Transform your Life”

One of the most important things to understand is that if you allow these thoughts to penetrate your mind, you will remain stagnant with just the hope of being better. It’s important to choose TODAY to leave those negative thoughts in the past.

Step Three: Create a clear vision and purpose for your life

Now for the fun part – let’s dream! And I’m not talking about those boring, “I want a stable job with good benefits” kind of dreams (although, hey, if that’s your jam, go for it). I’m talking about those wild, makes-your-heart-race kind of dreams.

What would you do if you knew you couldn’t fail? If money wasn’t an issue? If you had all the time in the world?

Maybe you want to write a novel, start a goat yoga studio, or learn to juggle flaming torches (please don’t, but you do you). Whatever it is, write it down. All of it. No dream is too big or too weird.

For me, it was starting this blog. I’d always wanted to write, but I kept telling myself I wasn’t good enough. Spoiler alert: I did it anyway, and here we are!

Step Four: Time Management and Prioritization is KEY

Okay, real talk – we all have the same 24 hours in a day. So why does it feel like some people are out there living their best lives while we’re drowning in a sea of unfolded laundry and unanswered emails?

It’s all about priorities, my friend. Take a look at how you’re spending your time. Are you binge-watching The Office for the 17th time instead of working on that side hustle? (I’m not judging – I’ve been there.)

Try this: for one week, track everything you do. And I mean everything. You might be surprised at how much time you’re wasting on things that don’t really matter to you.

Then, start making some changes. Maybe you need to wake up an hour earlier, or maybe you need to learn to say no to things that don’t align with your goals. Whatever it is, remember – you’re the boss of your time.

Time is a previous resource, and I realized I needed to manage it wisely. By evaluating how I used my time and learning to prioritize tasks, I gained control over my schedule. Implementing effective time management techniques allowed me to make room for what truly mattered and achieve a sense of balance. I use the Ultimate Life Notion Planner to organize my entire life and keep me honest on where I spend most of my time, money, and resources. Check it out!

Step Five: Build healthy habits

I know, I know. The word “healthy” probably makes you want to run for the hills. But hear me out. Taking care of yourself isn’t just about green smoothies and 5 AM yoga sessions (although if that’s your thing, more power to you).

It’s about finding what makes you feel good – body, mind, and soul. Maybe it’s dancing in your living room like no one’s watching. Maybe it’s taking a walk in nature. Maybe it’s finally learning how to cook something other than ramen noodles.

For me, it was discovering the magic of a good night’s sleep. (Seriously, why did no one tell me how amazing it feels to wake up refreshed?) Find what works for you and make it a non-negotiable part of your routine.

Building and sticking to healthy habits are important, but it’s just as important to develop healthy coping mechanisms to manage stress and cultivate a peaceful state of mind.

Step Six: Find Your Tribe

Here’s the thing – trying to change your life can feel pretty lonely sometimes. That’s why you need to surround yourself with people who get it. People who’ll cheer you on when you’re killing it, and pick you up when you’re feeling down.

This doesn’t mean you need to ditch all your current friends. But maybe it’s time to branch out a bit. Join a club, take a class, or slide into the DMs of someone you admire (in a non-creepy way, of course).

And hey, if you’re feeling brave, share your goals with someone. Having an accountability buddy can be a game-changer. Just make sure it’s someone who’ll call you out when you’re making excuses, not someone who’ll let you off the hook too easily.

Final Thoughts…

We’ve covered a lot of ground, haven’t we? But here’s the most important thing to remember: this journey is yours. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to getting your life together. What works for me might not work for you, and that’s totally okay.

The point is to start. Take that first step, no matter how small. Maybe today it’s just making your bed. Maybe it’s finally sending that email you’ve been putting off. Whatever it is, celebrate it. You’re moving forward, and that’s what counts.

Remember, we’re all just figuring it out as we go along. Some days you’ll feel like you’re on top of the world, and other days you’ll wonder how you managed to put your shoes on the right feet. That’s life, baby.

So, are you ready to join me on this wild, messy, beautiful journey of getting our sh*t together? Let’s do this thing! And hey, if you fall off the wagon (and trust me, you will – I do all the time), just dust yourself off and hop back on. We’re in this together.

Now go forth and conquer, you magnificent human! And don’t forget to treat yourself to something nice along the way. You deserve it.

Sending you all the good vibes and a virtual high-five,

Ash H.

I know there is a lot of information that was given, but these are just a guide when you feel like you don’t know where to start.

If you’ve read through this post, you have taken a big step which is deciding that some sort of change needs to happen. Change happens on your own terms and at your own pace. If you want to take your transformation journey to the next step, take a look at the “Transform your Life” eBook. It has over 100 pages and endless resources to truly help change your life. Let’s change our lives together!